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New Year's resolutions

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it's that time of year again. we start thinking about making resolutions.  but what are we really doing? what are we really telling ourselves? we start thinking of all these ways to "better ourselves" because a new year means a fresh start. what is wrong with the way we are now? what is wrong with the way the past year shaped us? can't we give a "hell yes" to how far we've come, to what we've accomplished? maybe I really like my sarcastic mouth. my mom pooch. or the absurd amount of time it takes me to say sorry because I have to learn the lesson in my own time and that amount of time is apparently longer than it takes most! I'm not bashing those who make a new resolution every year, I am a huge fan of setting goals, manifesting, and even creating some habits (check out January's Self-Care Club !). what I am not a fan of is making unattainable goals because when it boils down to it, subconsciously (or consciously) we don't love the person